Help Me Grow
Please...
Be consistent with me,
then I can trust your words and actions.
Comfort me when I'm scared, hurt, or sad,
then I'll know I'm okay,
even when I'm not feeling strong or happy.
Take responsibility for all your feelings
and actions, then I also won't blame others,
and I'll take responsibilty for my life.
Communicate what you feel hurt
or frightened about when you're angry at me,
then I'll feel I'm a good person and I'll learn
how to constructively deal with my feelings.
Tell me clearly and specifically what you want,
then I can hear you and I'll also know how to
communicate my needs in a positive way.
Express to me that I'm okay
even when my words or behavior may not be,
then I can learn from my mistakes
and have high self-esteem.
Balance your life between work and play,
then I can believe that I can grow up,
be responsible and still have fun.
Remember what you wanted
when you were my age,
then you'll better understand
my needs and interests.
Understand and accept me,
I may be different from you and I'm okay.
Treat me as an individual,
then I'll know that I can be my unique self.
Hug me and tell me that you care about me,
then I'll feel lovable
and I'll express my loving to others.
Thank you for hearing me
I LOVE YOU!!