Self-Development: Peace of Mind, Self-Will, and Spirit
 
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
 
To continuously try and improve myself as a person. To build my own
integrity(self-trust) and self-will(determination), to gain the trust
of others(emotional bank accounts), to be a person of non-stress
through balance and peace of mind, to be spiritual, and to be truly
free in both words and actions.
 
 
 
     
 
     
Health
  
       
         
   
To have a healthy body. To be an example of health by eating well,
exercizing regularly, and getting a good sound sleep on a consistent
basis. To educate myself about healthy lifestyles and to continually
learn new ways of cooking. To be a safe driver, a safe athlete,
and a safe person.
         
   
Family: Husband and Parent
       
         
   
-To realize the great fortune and treasure that is my wife. To know that my purpose in life is to make her happy. To continually give her real love, to love her without expecting anything in return, to be strong when she is weak, to gain her trust, to show and do love via touch, hugs, kisses, hands, words..., to encourage and inspire her, to not make her feel guilty, to use the pause button effectively, to never show violence or raised voice. To regularly communicate together and to create/do things together.

-To help my children become: happy, positive, confident, self-disciplined, self-reliant, learning loving, good and kind, polite and respectful, honest and trustworthy, unselfish and self-sacrificing, spiritual and free, and aware of the beauty and value of a family culture.

-To give my children real love, to always be a model of our principles, to create and ensure family time in order to do things together and have fun together, to take the time to communicate(and listen) with them and to understand them, to use positive language with them, to never show anger and a raised voice and to always be in control of your negative emotions in front of them, to cooperatively do tasks together, to continually learn how to be a good parent, and to show/do/tell love to them.
         
   
Teacher and Learner
       
         
   
To inspire my students and to effectively help them learn about the subject in question and more importantly about the positive meanings in life. I want to be a force of nature that helps my students become better overall individuals. I want to create a positive and comfortable classroom atmosphere and to build close and trusting relationships with my students in which I can also learn from them.

To develop myself as a teacher and educator by preparing, reflecting, reading, researching, writing, attending conferences, and obtaining degrees. I also want to develop good working relationships with co-workers and colleagues in which we can learn from each other.

To continually stimulate my mind with new and various learning and to realize that learning and creating are paths to happiness.
         
     
Home
  
       
         
   
To cooperatively create and preserve with my family a beautiful, bright, clean, orderly, and comfortabel home atmosphere.

To ensure financial security by using money carefully and wisely, by learning how to invest and pay taxes, by earning interest instead of paying it, and by keeping a budget.
         
   
Extended Family, Friends, People
       
         
   
To regularly take time to contact my parents, mother-in-law, and close friends(occasionely for extended family). To always be there for them when needed or called upon and to gain their trust by following through on what I say to them. To show/do/tell real love to my parents and mother-in-law.

-To learn how to better relate with people. To engender their trust by keeping promises and sharing my resources, to never talk badly of others, to be flexible and to shut off my task accomplishment frame of mind in order to listen to them, to be aware of Zukav's idea or returning kindness, and to smile and to send vibrations of kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your smile, and in your greetings.