I have thought long and hard on this issue. A slaves responsablity is to please her/his Master/Mistress. To have no worries except pleasing one's Master/Mistress. It is a hard life, always having to put someone else first. It is hard to give up total control to someone else, to trust someone so much to know they will always make sure your needs are met and taken care of. It is even harder for someone that hasn't really been trained in real life. Women were made to take care of men, to please them, to love them.
Now Masters/Mistresses/Dominates have a harder job. They take responsiblity for their slave. It is their job to make sure their property is always safe, well fed, healty both mentally and physically, nurtured, and loved. They are Mother, Father, Friend, Lover, Councelor, Teacher. The slave has to know they can come to their Master with anything and everything, their hopes, dreams, fantasies. They shouldn't fear coming to their Master. There are many that claim to be Masters online and in real life. There are few that can handle the responsiblity, esspecially if the slave has problem, for example has been abused and tought they are no good. Most don't want to hear about it. It is an inconvience to them. They don't have time for it. They don't want to teach them.
The one thing everyone seems to forget is that Masters and slaves are people. No two people react the same way to anything. No matter what the experience is. Masters seem to have forgotten to help their slaves grow as a person and to rejoice in their accomplishments. Don't they know it makes someone give up trying. What about when the slave takes the time and effort to send the Master a card? Isn't it still a good thing to acknowledge what has been done? Has it become a fact that the slaves feelings just don't matter anymore.
What about the Masters that have multiple slaves?? Shouldn't a Master make time for all of them? Shouldn't a Master see to alls needs??? Maybe I am wrong on the responsiblities of a slave and a Master. I pray I am not. I pray that I atleast am cared for as much as any pet. I hope my Master is one that will cherish me and keep me safe always and always makes time for me. No matter how many he has. I hope I am loved as much as I love.