Up until now, I dated three girls . My first relationship was with someone outside of show business. Next I dated Kong Yan Yin . Then I went out with Jessica Husuan. It has been somewhat over a year now since Jessicca and I broke up , and I haven't dated anyone else.
I met Jessica at a time when my career was on the rise . I was a happy and fun person then Jessica was attracted to my happy and light-hearted nature because we were so happy whenever we were together. I always made her laugh.Later on, I was the one who changed, not her. My career was on the decline and Jessica's career began to rise . Jessica as an actress received more fan mail than me, who is a singer, totally not what I expected. We began to drift apart.
As we began to drift further apart, I was sad and depressed.I was also feeling sorry for myself . I became taciturn and reserved. I closed myself off. I didn't talk much and didn't laugh or cry much. Iwas like a wooden person. At first, Jessica was there for me. She tried to comfort me about my career downfall. However, slowly she began to feel a growing resentment towards me. She said when she first met me I wasn't like that. She said she needed a boyfriend who was optimistic, happy, and talkative. Our deep feelings for each other began to fade away. Because I didn't know how to fix the situation and our of feelings of deperateness , I decided to break up with her. I was angry when I told Jessica that I wanted to break up. I was just trying to see how she would react to my suggestion of breaking up. A part of me was angry and was trying to test Jessica . to my surprise, jessica didn't object and we really broke up. A three year relationship was gone just like that.
Kong Yan Yin and Jessica gave me two different feelings . KOng Yan Yin and I grew up together and we were like childhood sweethearts: It was more like puppy love. Jesscia was someone I could count on , someonr whom I would want to spend the rest of my life with, someone I would want to MARRY!
Thanks to KatieL for providing the English version.]
Another thing I wanna mention In 1996's JSG annual top ten awards...dicky was the host..and they had a little special on him. HE talked about his ups and downs..and he also talked a bit about Jess. There was this big tv screen and he goes "and then I met.... HER" then in the tv screen Kwon yan yin popped up, then he goes"no..no..noNOT HER NOT HER"..then Jessica popped up. He goes"she's terrible..copying me, I was Sune UM hong 'monkey', when they have the sequal she can act in it" --he was just joking about her hair. Then later on he says "so i took it and fed it to Suen Huen's dogs, but 2 months after I didn't do it anymore because we broke up"...he was explaining how terrible his 95 was, then he says that they broke up 2 months after so they broke up sometime in Feb of 96.
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