Mission

This sites intention is "not" to "bash" men in general.

(But for those of you in need of doing so, please "feel" free!! Keep in mind of course we will sensor language, and no usage of "real" names.)

And I know there are women out there too,,
in the world that can equally get under someone's skin in the same fashion as well.

Abuse of any nature is not defined, nor separated by "gender".

And among the more standard forms we have all come to know, Stalking, is a Form of Abuse.

It's a form of abuse that "can" take place after you come to the realization that ,
"that" is in fact what that person is. An Abuser
And you take steps and "Attempt" to live you "own" life.

The purpose of this site is to provide an "Outlet"
A Voice to those who can't find anyone who will listen.

What better place, than with others "who know"?

It also intends to provide education.

Education on Abuse, Physical, Mental, or Emotional.
And the behavioral patterns involved with "both" the Abuser, and the Abused.
The behavioral patterns, and the reactions of local societies to Abusers that are not "known" abusers.
And societies behaviors towards the "Abused".
"The" Results of ..
"That all around "Good O'l Boy" Image.

Hopefully this site will help some people "see"

Help the members of Local Towns, Cities.. see...
The Good O'l Boy, that everyone "knows"? May not be such a "Good Ole Boy" after all.
And maybe they will learn, what "knowing" someone "really" means.
(learn that an "appearance" is just that,, and hopefully make them aware, that,
"they" have not been "behind closed doors".)
Before "they" Pass Judgement. Or keep them from it at all.

"I " hopefully and some of "you" will "help" abolish that "Image"

Help the Abused See...
Help discard some of the "thoughts" that can become engraved in the mind. That what they "are" in..
Is .. NOT LOVE.
&
It's "NOT YOU"...
You "Can't" make it better.. you can't be prettier, more quiet, more alive, more witty, sexier, more talented,
a better housekeeper, a better mother, a better cook.. what ever..

Because it "isn't YOU..

To correct the "Relationship Fantasy" that can be in your head.

The 15 minutes, the "day after" or even the "two days after"..
The "being a "good boy" I promise to change Period.
of when he is so sweet , so charming, so "Sorry",so sincere..

That "period" is not worth the month, months,
or how ever so long or short a time it lasts, of agony spent in-between!!

It "ISN'T" going to Change.
The way it was "before"... is "history".. And it wasn't real..
It was the "honey" that trapped you, inside the hive, with that Stinging Bee!!

The Point is... You Don't Have to Take it !!
So Don't Take It Anymore!
I'm Not!!