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KEY SCRIPTURES:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does
not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not
self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of
wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the
truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always
persevered. Love never fails.
(1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
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A.
Be merciful (Lesson 44).
B.
Love is patient (Lesson 45).
C.
Love is kind (Lesson 46).
D.
Love does not envy (Lesson 47).
E.
Love is not proud (Lesson 48).
F.
Love is not rude or self-seeking (Lesson 49).
G.
Love is not easily angered and keeps no record of wrongs (Lesson
50).
H.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth
Every believer is a
child of God.
He therefore needs to know the heart of the Father God.
He is to hate what our Father God hates, and delight in what God
delight in.
If we do not know what is in the Father's heart and live against His
will and desire, we grieve the Spirit of God living in us.
God hates evil (Zechariah 8:16-17; Habakkuk 1:13).
We are likewise to hate evil (Amos 5:15).
We are to hate evil in our thoughts, words, and deeds, in ourselves
and in others.
We must never, never, never show a delight in evil (1
Corinthians 13:16).
"These are the things you are to do: SPEAK THE TRUTH to
each other, and render true and sound judgment in your courts; do
not PLOT EVIL against your neighbor, and do not love to swear
falsely. I HATE all this," declares the
LORD.
(Zechariah 8:16-17)
Your eyes are too pure to look on evil;
you cannot tolerate
wrong.
(Habakkuk 1:13)
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the
truth.
(1 Corinthians 13:6)
On the other hand, whenever truth is proclaimed, whenever truth
prevails, whenever truth is demonstrated, we are to rejoice with the
truth.
Whether it is without or outside the church, we must rejoice whenever
truth is manifested.
We must not be jealous or be envious when others are promoting God's
truth, but rejoice with them and support them.
1.
Examples of "delighting in evil"
Because many of us
still live by the flesh (our sinful nature) and not after the Spirit,
we often fall into the sin of "delighting in evil."
When we do this, we break God's heart.
By this, we show that we take the interests of God lightly.
In fact, we are taking the side of the devil against God.
This is because the devil is the one who causes evil to grow and
prevail on this earth.
He is the one whom Jesus said has come "to kill, steal and
destroy" (John 10:10).
On the other hand, Jesus has come to give life, life abundantly (John
10:10).
We can "delight in evil" in our attitude, words, or
deeds.
This sinful attitude arises first from our heart, and expresses itself
through our words and actions.
Therefore, we must be ever vigilant and guard our spirit always (Malachi
2:15-16).
Never approve of evil, in our own lives or in those of others.
The following examples are given to sensitize us to the various
situation where we can fall into the sin of delighting in evil and as
a result grieve the Spirit of God.
E.g. When a sister in the church chases her husband out of the
home because of his disagreements with the wife, what would your response
be?
If you talk like this, you are delighting in evil:
"Sister, you should have done that
long ago!!!"
"Sister, you should have thrown his clothing
out into the streets also."
"Sister, what you do is right; this will
teach him a lesson!!!"
"Serve that brother right; he has been
such a pain in the neck to her all this while."
"He treats the house as a hotel, etc.;
he has it coming to him."
If we talk like that, we are not having God's kingdom and purposes
in our heart.
We are aggravating the situation by encouraging the wife's wrongdoing.
We are affirming the sister in her hatred and fury (which are sinful
attitudes).
We are encouraging family division, causing hurt to the spouses
themselves and to their children.
We are condoning an action that brings shame to God's name before the
world.
Instead, we should encourage and promote the truth of God, by
saying:
"Sister, it is wrong to chase your
husband out of the house.
He is the head of your household. Learn to
submit to him in the Lord."
"If he has done wrong, you can point out
his error and settle your differences peacefully."
"If you still cannot agree, you can seek
the church leaders for counseling."
"Sister, be patient with your husband,
forgive him."
"Walk in mercy and love your
husband."
"Pray for him, and believe that God is
changing him."
"With God, all things are possible; he
will be changed by God if you begin to praise God for hearing your
prayer."
"Sister, do not curse your husband like
that; you are binding him to the past with your words."
E.g. A brother who has been going to the Cell Group meetings
suddenly decides not to go by giving one of the following reasons: the
teaching is lousy, the singing of praise and the music is of low
quality; the next meeting venue is too far away, etc.
Such excuses are blatantly wrong and sinful.
To criticize a leader's teaching by calling it lousy is totally
without contractive value and is judgmental.
Pray for him and he will improve.
The leader ahs been appointed by the Pastor and is the best available.
To condemn the worship and music is being petty.
We do to gather together because of good music and praise.
By God's grace, we will have good worship and music on Sunday morning.
We gather together to build up and encourage one another (Hebrews
10:24-25).
To complain of the long distance is being selfish.
Others have to travel from far away to meet with you in your home too.
If everyone agrees with such excuses, in the end the whole Care
Group will disintegrate and God's purposes will be undone.
The one who started the ball rolling with his excuses and those who
agreed with him would then have served the purposes of the devil
through their careless and evil attitude.
You will be delighting in evil if you agree with the brother, by
saying:
"Yes, I agree with you; I will also
not attend the meeting any more."
"Yes, the teaching is lousy; the pastor
should have appointed a better teacher."
"Yes, its too far away; I will also not
attend the next meeting."
Instead, we should speak the truth by saying:
"Brother, you should not skip any
meeting; you will be blessed by going."
"I agree that the music and praise is
not as inspiring as the Sunday morning's but we are not gathering for
the music and praise.
Anyway, let's thank God for the musicians in
our Cell Group."
"Let's give our leader more time to
learn; his teaching will get better with experience."
"Come on brother, its alright to travel
a bit further this week; we need to encourage this brother by meeting
in his house.
Moreover, he also travels from far away to
other brother's home every week."
E.g. A famous and pretty princess goes about doing charitable
work and is adored by people all over the world. Nonetheless, she
openly commit fornication and adultery and admits it in public without
shame or remorse.
You will be delighting in evil if you agree with her acts by
saying:
"She has been bullied by the palace
officials and other members of the royal family in the past. Now she
deserves some fun in her life."
"People are calling her a saint. I
believe she is a good role model for any girl to follow."
"Her husband committed adultery
first. She has every right to do the same." (Two sins do not make
a situation right).
"We are now living in modern times. We
do not have to judge her by old standards."
However, you will be speaking the truth by saying:
"She is an adulteress and is not a
good role model for any girl in to follow."
"She ought to be ashamed of herself by
bringing embarrassment to her children with her indiscretions.
They will find it hard to face the remarks of
others as they grow up.
No proper mother who love her children will
do that to her own."
2.
How to not delight in evil but rejoice with the truth
As children of God, we
must consciously reject evil and stand for truth.
We must not allow even the slightest endorsement of evil through our
attitude, words or actions.
To develop this attitude, we need to know and act on the following
truths:
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Always
desire to please God from your heart and not grieve Him. |
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Hate
evil from your heart. |
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Delighting
in evil brings a curse upon ourselves. |
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Speak
the truth at all times, boldly and fearlessly. |
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Practice
truth at all times. |
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Rejoice
with the truth at all times. |
(a)
Always desire to please God from your heart and not grieve Him.
God is our Father.
We are His children.
We please God when we love what He loves and hate what He hates.
It grieves our Father's heart when we rejoice in evil and suppress
the truth.
We no longer express our Father's character of righteousness and
holiness when we do that.
Instead we are siding with God's enemy, the devil, when we rejoice in
evil.
Therefore, as children of God, let us make it our supreme desire to
please the heart of Father God.
Let us never delight in evil, but always rejoice with the truth.
Live us live to do God's will and please Him, as Christ did (Hebrews
10:5-7).
Therefore, when Christ came into the world, He said:
"Sacrifice and offering you did not desire,
but a body you prepared for me;
with burnt offerings and sin offerings
you were not PLEASED.
Then I said, 'Here I am -- it is written about me in the scroll --
I have come TO DO YOUR WILL'"
(Hebrews
10:5-7)
(b)
Hate evil from your heart.
Do not take evil or sin lightly, in ourselves or in others.
It was sin that brought separation of man from God.
It was sin that will bring man to the eternal fires of hell.
It was sin that caused Jesus to leave His glory behind and die as a
criminal for the sins of the whole world.
It was sin that caused the agony of Jesus' suffering on the cross for
us.
God knows the great tragedy of sin and evil.
God paid a great price to redeem us from sin and evil and death.
We are therefore never to love evil, but hate it from our heart.
God commands us to do so (Amos 5:14-15).
Let us choose to obey God.
Seek good, not evil,
that you may live.
Then the LORD God Almighty will be with you,
just as you say He is.
Hate evil, love good;
maintain justice in the
courts.
(Amos 5:14-15)
(c)
Delighting in evil brings a curse upon ourselves.
If we condone or
approve of evil, we are indirectly participating in it.
This will bring a curse upon ourselves (Isaiah 5:20).
As a result, we will come under God's judgment (Isaiah
5:24-25).
Woe to those who call evil good
and good evil,
who put darkness for light
and light for darkness,
who put bitter for sweet
and sweet for bitter.
Therefore, as tongues of fire lick up straw
and as dry grass sinks down in the flames,
so their roots will decay
and their flowers blow away as dust;
for they have rejected the law of the LORD Almighty
and spurned the word of the Holy One of
Israel.
Therefore the LORD's anger burns against His people;
His hand is raised and He strikes them
down.
(Isaiah
5:24-25)
(d)
Speak the truth at all times, boldly and fearlessly.
It is not popular to
speak the truth, whether in the church or outside the church.
For speaking the truth, Jesus was persecuted and crucified by His
fellow Jews.
Carnal people do not like to hear the truth.
The world only wants to hear what is acceptable or correct socially
and politically.
However, we are ambassadors of Christ (2 Corinthians
5:20).
And Christ is "The Way and the truth and the Life" (John
14:6).
And we have no choice but to honor Jesus always and speak the truth.
The truth may be unpleasant to many, may anger many, and may
provoke others.
It is painful to our ego (sinful nature) to hear the truth.
However, only the truth brings us back to the ways of God (John
14:6).
And only the truth can set us free -- from the lies of the devil, from
self-deception, from bondages and curses, from sin and death (John
8:31-32).
To the Jews who had believed in Him, Jesus said, "If you
hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know
the truth, and the truth set you free."
(John 8:31-32)
We are therefore commanded to speak the truth, in love, at all
times (Ephesians 4:15).
And we need to speak the truth fearlessly and boldly.
We do not need to fear man, but God alone, as we stand for the truth.
Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things
grow up into Him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From Him the
whole body, joined and help together by every supporting ligament,
grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its
work.
(Ephesians 4:15-16)
E.g. "Sister, you need to control your temper or you'll
destroy yourself, your family and your testimony." (Galatians
5:15, 19-21).
E.g. "Brother, you need to go to work -- just find any
work -- so that you may earn some money and bless others (2
Thessalonians 3:6-12).
E.g. "Homosexuality is wrong in the eyes of God even if
it is approved by the Supreme Court of the land. God loves the sinner
and has a plan of salvation for him, but God condemns homosexual practices
in His word" (Romans 1:21-32).
(e)
Practice truth at all times
We must not only be
teachers or hearers of the truth but doers also (James
1:22).
If we know the truth and yet do not put it into practice, we are
hypocrites, just like the religious Pharisees in the time of Jesus (Matthew
23:1-3,13).
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves.
Do what it says.
Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like
a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at
himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks
like.
(James 1:22-24)
Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples: "The
teachers of the law and the Pharisees sit in Moses' seat. So you
must obey them and do everything they tell you. But do not do what
they do for they do not practice what they preach.
Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You
shut the kingdom of heaven in men's face. You yourselves do not
enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying
to."
(Matthew 23:1-3,13)
When we do not practice the truth ourselves, we will find it hard
to reprove others who do evil.
In fact, we will tend to overlook the evil around us.
As we learn to tolerate evil, our moral standards will drop, and decay
will set into the family, office, church or society around us.
We will then no longer act as the salt of the earth.
Men will trample on us and cast us away (Matthew
5:13).
Our words will count for nothing if we do not practice the truth
ourselves.
(f)
Rejoice with the truth at all times
Always rejoice with the
truth that is being proclaimed and acted on.
No matter who is doing it, whether believers or unbelievers, always be
thankful that God's righteousness is being established.
Support brothers from other churches who are holding evangelism
campaigns and crusades; never put them down out of envy (Mark
9:38-40).
Rejoice when other believers are able to cast out demons, heal the
sick, raise the dead and bring in the mighty harvest in Jesus' name.
Join in the work, learn from them and rejoice that God's kingdom has
come among the people (Matthew 12:28).
"Teacher," said John, "we saw a man driving out
demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one
of us."
"Do not stop him," Jesus said, "No one who does a
miracle in my name can in next moment say anything bad about me, for
whoever is not against us is for us."
(Mark 9:38-40)
Rejoice when a brother is promoted because of his diligence.
Rejoice when a sister's children do well in school.
Rejoice when God's Spirit moves mightily upon a backslidden brother.
Support the government when it declares war on corruption and
sexual immorality; do not be cynical or indifferent.
Rejoice when the public reaches out to help those who are starving in
other nations; join in the effort.
Always rejoice with the truth, giving thanks to God, and thereby
encouraging others to maintain God's standards of righteousness.
PRAYER
Dear Father God,
grant me more love, compassion and patience in my response to
others, including my husband, my wife, my parents, my
children, my neighbors, my pastor, my Cell Group leaders and
members, and the road drivers I meet today.
Help me to be kind to everyone I meet,
including my spouse, my children, my parents, my colleagues,
my brothers and sisters in the Lord, my boss, my subordinates
and strangers on the street.
I thank you for all that you have given me and
I am contented and satisfied.
I also thank you for blessing every one of my brothers and
sisters-in-Christ in this church.
I thank you that you always give me all the blessings I have
asked of you.
I humble myself before you and acknowledge
that without you I can do nothing good.
All that I have and own has come from you and I am thankful.
I give you all the glory for all that you have done in my
life.
Help me to always put the interests of the
kingdom of God and the interests of others before my own
interests.
Help me to die daily to my selfishness and to live for you and
for others.
Help me not to easily get angry with others.
Help me to forgive others quickly and not keep a record of
wrongs.
Help me always never to delight in evil but
rejoice with the truth.
Thanks you Lord, in Jesus' Name.
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Your thought
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In what ways have we unconsciously or
consciously condone evil in ourselves or in others?
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Why is delighting in evil wrong?
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Why do we find it so difficult at times to
speak out for the truth?
How do we overcome our weaknesses in this area?

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