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IN MASTER'S HOUSE:
The Protocols vary somewhat depending on the submissive; because
all subs are different and training must be tailored to the submissive’s
needs and skills. Caution should, of course, be observed when Vanilla
people are around.
The basics are:
You address Master as Sir, and do so in every sentence. A submissive is always
naked and in cuffs and collar in Master’s House. You will usually be restrained
or bound in some way. You must crawl into the bedroom or bathroom. You must ask
permission to use the bathroom. At times Master will require you to ask permission
to leave the room He is in and Kneel and present yourself when you enter. You
may not sit on the furniture without permission. You must Kneel and wait quietly
for Master to notice you, and ask permission to speak. Whenever you have no duties
to perform, or need instruction, you assume the Kneeling position in your assigned
place at your Master’s feet and wait quietly for his attention. You may
not have an orgasm without permission, and may only play with yourself with permission.
At night when sleeping, your wrists will always be bound. When you make a mistake
or misbehave, you may not wait until Master notices, but must immediately inform
Him and gracefully accept correction. You may not interrupt your Master except
in an emergency. You must ask permission to sleep in Master’s bed. When
you are in Master’s House, you may eat and drink only from Master’s
hand, or from a bowl on the floor with hands tied behind your back. Within the
bounds of practicality, you must keep your knees apart, so Master has immediate
access to you at all times. Legs should be far enough apart so that Master’s
hand rests easily on your puss.
You are required to wear skirts and high heels wherever practical. Master chooses
your underwear each morning, approves your clothing.
At times, Master may relax protocol and allow you more latitude – but these rules will always be in force: you must be naked in His house, you must address Him as Sir, and you may not sit on the furniture without permission.
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IN PUBLIC
Whenever you are not using your hands, keep them behind your back. Do this unobtrusively;
- don't alarm the vanilla world. It is permitted to vary your hand positions:
hands clasped behind back, arms crossed behind back, one arm straight and the
other hand behind holding the elbow. Practice it diligently; so that you will
do it automatically, without having to think.
You walk placing one foot in front of the other, to give your body a graceful
sway.
You wait for his attention to speak. In a restaurant, Master orders your meals
for you, or approves what you eat. You must discreetly ask permission to begin
eating, and you may never start eating until your Master does. You address Him
as Sir whenever there are no other people around.
When having dinner with others, you will discreetly serve your Master and clear
the table, and you will sit on the floor at his feet.
When walking, you walk beside Him on his left, so He can protect you with his
Right hand. However, if walking next to a street, you walk beside Him on the
side away from the street, so he can protect you from any danger coming from
the street. Remember, your Master cares for you and is responsible for protecting
you.
You are restricted from opening doors, pulling out chairs on your own, or putting
on your coat without Master’s help – instead you stand and wait for
Master to help you. This adds a level of public restraint that does not look
like submission to the outside. The Dom will just seem to be respectful yet is
in complete control.
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HIDDEN PROTOCOL (WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS, OR VANILLA GUESTS):
In public she calls me Sir with a lilt in
her voice that tells others she is teasing, and me that she is
serious.
Whisper in your Master’s ear if you want something.
Permission to get yourself something from the kitchen: “I was going
to get myself something from the kitchen – can I get you something?” If
he decides to forbid you, he can smile and call you over for a kiss and
shake his head no very subtly while doing it, and you can just “forget” to
get what you want.
You ask to go to the store, out with a friend, etc. and the kids will
take it as common courtesy. The way it is phrased had a lot to do with
it. "Will you excuse me to go to the store now?"
WHEN LITTLE GIRLS ARE SICK:
Master will take care of you. You will be put to bed, wrists
cuffed, and Master will see to it that you eat properly and drink lots
of fluids.
Master may take your temperature rectally every hour or so. You are allowed
to respectfully ask to be allowed to be alone, if you need to be alone;
however you must ask permission to use the bathroom or get out of bed
for any other reason. Master may allow you to watch TV, or read; or He
may read to you.
