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Want Something? | 3.16.03 I find it kinda weird that alot of people are either afraid/imbarressed or whatever to ask what they want. It could be ice cream, it could be a yes or no question. Recently I've had 3 people including my self, flip questions in our minds over and over again. Its about girls, and its a simple yes or no question and yet we are so afraid to ask. Well, because of confidentiality i won't talk about any one else besides me so... I was pondering a simple question for a few weeks. It goes like this, "I like you,just wanted to know if you like me?" And yet i can't bring my self to ask (until recently). It was just like, what if she says no? And then what. But guys: Listen to me for a sec. Wouldn't it be a much better if you know what the other person thinks of you? Wouldn't it be much better if you knew a concrete idea in the other person's mind? That's the first point i'd like to get across. The second is: If you want something, ask. Oh, sure it would be cute if your bf/gf knew what you wanted with your subtle hints and stuff and they got you just what you wanted. But for all other people, just ask! You know what you want, and we'll either go get it for you or we won't. But at least we actually know what you want. It's much more easier than the evil reverse psycology that many girls know by instinct. It drives people crazy. (BTW to the person that's reading this and that person happens to be the girl i like, ignore this next paragraph.) Another thing that drives a person crazy is this: "This guy likes me, but i don't really like him back so i'm just going to avoid him and not talk to him." The guy might as well go to the seven hells. Sheesh, i dunno if you girls know it but, its drives a guy insane. A simple, "i like you as a friend only" would be MUCH better and MUCH less torturous. Cause other wise the guy would be like, "Crap i did something wrong.... arg why can't i even say sorry. she used to say hi now shes like.... i dunno. ok... i get your point, please talk to me. arg, i'm being ignored... on purpose.... did i really do something that bad?" and on and on again. The point of this rant? Try to express your idea clearly to those who care and respect you. It's much much much easier than second guessing and it'll cause much less headaches. - Wei |
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