.: Yoni Massage - vagina in Tantra
The word yoni is the Sanskrit word for the 'female
reproductive organ'.
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Massaging the vagina Massage is great for relaxation and getting to know your
partners body and what pleasure them. Relaxing into orgasm is far more
intense than being all tense.
- Setup a nice
comfortable area, not necessarily in the bedroom, with blankets and
pillows or cushions. You partner lays on her back using the pillows or
cushions to rest her legs in an wide open position. Some women may be
embarrassed to do this so you may wish to use candle light. You can sit
or kneel either to her side or between her legs.
- Try to synchronize your breathing ensuring your breaths are slow
and deep. Make eye contact during the massage as well as admiring her
body and she may close her eyes to just relax into the massage. Place a
hand gently over her heart and the other hand resting on her pelvis. Sit
still like this for several minutes.
- You can use oil if you
choose to start massaging all of her body lightly touching all the skin.
Concentrate on any areas that may have build up stress, massaging more
vigorously to release the tension. Take your time to make her as relaxed
as possible before moving to concentrate on her vagina. Finish with her
pelvic region brushing away the energy and tension away up her stomach
and down her thighs.
- Sit between her legs and cup both of your
hands over her pubic region with your fingers resting over her pubic
hair and the base of your hand on your vagina lips. Sit like this for
several minutes.
- Warm some oil by rubbing your hands together before applying it to
her vagina. Rub the oil all around the external lips and the surrounding
area. Take your time to massage this area, making eye contact with your
partner. You may wish to describe what you see to your partner. Tell her
what you like about it.
- Take the outer lips between your thumb
and forefinger of each hand and rub up and down slowly. Move your
fingers in a circular motion massaging the lips. Move to the inner lips
and repeat.
- Move to gently stroking the clitoris and moving
your finger around in small circles around the clitoris. If you feel you
partner tense her pelvic muscles remind her to relax and not focus on
orgasm. Concentrate and synchronize your breathing. You may wish to put
your other hand on her stomach just above her public hair or stroke her
nipple.
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- When she is ready slide your middle finger into her
vagina. Slide it in and out very gently more to ensure she is well
lubricated than to stimulate. Then explore her vagina, feeling all the
different areas inside. Use small circles, press down on areas and hold
and move vigorously to release tensions. She will need to tell you what
feels good.
- Move to her G-Spot which is the spongy area just
beneath her pubic bone. To reach it comfortable, face your palm up while
inserting your middle finger. Move your finger backwards and forwards as
well as doing circle motions. Remind her to relax and not tense up
trying to orgasm. Concentrate on the breathing. You may wish to rub her
clitoris with your other hand. It is now up to her how long she wishes
to be massaged. Concentrating on her breathing she should be able to
orgasm without tensing up experiencing a very powerful orgasm. Ask if
she wants it massage more. If she doesn't ensure you lay down next to
her holding her and continuing to let her know that you are there for
her.
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