• What is D/s?
• Introducing your Partner to D/s
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• I am a male submissive

G'day, and welcome to our page.

Not a particularly original title, but certainly one close to both our hearts. Who are we? Mrs Wolf (My Alpha) and doreiwolf, a 24/7 D/s, married couple. Hope you didn't find that too much of a mouthful.

What does that mean? It means that Mrs Wolf and I live a Dominant/submissive relationship 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and that we're also a married couple.

How we got from 'vanilla' married couple, to a D/s married couple is basically the topic of these pages. Here you'll find links to the D/s 'scene', links to pages we found useful and, of course, pages that we've written, that will hopefully help others who are new to the D/s lifestyle

Perhaps a little history will help you understand us better. My Alpha and I met in 1994 with our first 'date' on 11th November 1994. Three weeks later I proposed and eventually we were married on the 2nd March 1996. Obviously we're still married, and very happily so.

Then around March in 1999 I was wandering the Web and found a few links to Dominance and submission pages. Now nothing was essentially wrong with our marriage, I wasn't looking for anything to 'spice it up'. I merely went looking out of curiosity, because like many people I'd seen the 'Hollywood' version and it held a kind of fascination. What I found literally blew me away.

While there was nothing wrong with our marriage, there had always been something that was niggling at the back of my mind that never seemed to let me relax fully. Well as you can probably guess, I found what it was in D/s. I found out I was submissive. Having made this discovery, and thought about it a while to make sure it wasn't a 'flash in the pan' thing, I was then faced with what to actually do about it. The idea of My Alpha being my Dominant came easily enough. Firstly, she was my life partner. I'd already pledged my love to her in a marriage ceremony. Secondly for all our married lives (and even before then) she had Dominated me. Some might say I was the stereotypical henpecked husband. The difference here, though, was that I was in that role willingly. So, unlike many who discover that they're submissive, there was never any doubt as to who I wanted as my Dominant. What was in doubt, was whether she'd want to be.

Here I'm going to contract the story a little. I introduced the idea to My Alpha, badly, and after several very rocky months, we came to this point. Where she is my Dominant, new to the 'role' and still getting used to it, and I am her submissive, and feeling more relaxed and happy than I ever have before.

I just skimmed quickly over a large, and painful, portion of our relationship with the words "and after several very rocky months". Our aim here is to present a series of articles, ideas and links which will hopefully help other couples avoid the problems we had.

Most of the information that I presented My Alpha with, when first exploring this lifestyle, came from the Web. Now there is a lot of information out there on D/s and BDSM, but most of it deals with the sexual side, or deals with couples that play D/s games in the bedroom and then decide to bring it out into everyday life.

However My Alpha felt that there needed to be more pages for those who perhaps want to concentrate less on the sexual side, initially and more on the emotional side of D/s. And thus were born these pages.

Here you'll find links to many places on the Web giving you on information on D/s in general and some of the more specific areas. I've split it up into General Links on D/s, Links for the Dominant and Links for the submissive. But whether you're Dominant, submissive or switch, don't hesitate to read articles written for ' the other half'. Knowledge is always useful.

Castle Realms This is an excellent place for information on D/s and BDSM.

Advice on Introducing D/s to your partner by Mrs Wolf and doreiwolf

Trust by doreiwolf

Male Submission by doreiwolf

• What is D/s?
• Introducing your Partner to D/s
• Trust
• I am a male submissive