MCKK-Our Friend or Foe [STAR86 Online]
by Atan Mustapha
Do you feel sick
watching that familiar striped red tie being worn by a certain group
of people on Wednesdays or catching a glimpse of that familiar crest
above Renong headquarters while driving along Jalan Syed Putra? I
was at a TKC Old Girls dinner a couple of years back accompanying
my better half and I actually found myself at a mini MCOBA gathering.
The emcee even went on to say, in praise of the TKCians' achievements,
"TKC girls are no longer just MCKK wives but are also doctors and
lawyers ……". The few STARians who were there sure felt like throwing
up (this will be confirmed by Sheikh Yahya, a 60s STARian who was
there). MCKK boys have been our favourite enemies in school but are
they still are?
let's be honest, the Malay College in Kuala Kangsar is somewhat of
a necessary evil. Just imagine life in STAR without them. Would Min
Nyamuk have looked forward to bashing KE VII students rather than
MCKK boys at rugger matches? Apart from not having any common struggles
with the KE boys apart from winning at rugby, he would probably have
gotten seriously pulverised in the process. Sometimes I feel that
they are our raison d'etre. Most of our competitive spirit had been
centred around them. Try to remember, was it more satisfying beating
Sekolah Seri Puteri in the 1984 PPM English Debate Finals and becoming
champs for the third consecutive time or beating MCKK twice in a row
in 1982 and 1983? In sports, especially soccer, the motivation for
winning the Ipoh championships was probably to get a chance to meet
MCKK at Perak inter-district championship level, not to bask in the
glory of becoming the Ipoh champs. Who cares that we lost in the finals
of 1985 inter-district football match as long as we thrashed MCKK
three weeks earlier (to the joy of Kuala Kangsar folks).
the field of girl-getting, these guys also look like they have the
upper-hand. For one thing, TKC girls always have this incomprehensible
preference for MCKK boys and vice-versa. Well, we are smarter since
we do not confine ourselves to this irrational behaviour of fishing
from just one pond. There is also empirical evidence to show that
girls who dump their MCKK boyfriends upgrade to STAR boyfriends (Rahman
and I can give you a more detailed account of this). There were cases
of a couple of girls who broke off with their STARian boyfriends and
having no chance of progressing further had to upgrade to the only
higher ranking species left - a STARian class monitor and a STAR headboy.
Ironically, these guys from MCKK, or "Budak Koleq" as they call themselves,
suddenly become pillars of comfort in a sea of strange faces when
we ventured out into the real world. Who else could relate to the
peculiar sense of inter-batch rivalry and "senior-junior patronage"
(please be liberal in interpreting this!) except MCKK boys? With whom
else could we exchange war stories of rugger and other matches gone
by? Who else would regard 3rd class KTM train journeys as a "liberating
experience"? The guys from SDAR and SAS may have been our "blood brothers",
but apart from being from all-boys schools with similar senior-junior
patronage customs and having no pretentious title of "College" conferred
upon our schools, the similarities end there.
I have personally seen many a STAR-MCKK friendship develop from rib-picking
to strong bonding. The Alan-Miang, Atan-Caine (pronounced Cha-ain)
and Mat Kalut-Gonjeng (formerly Mat Kalut-Mat Puk) alliances that
we see blossoming are no more than a reflection of how similar we
are. Rozhan and Ma'e, would you rather have other people than Feisal
and Amran as housemates when you were in London? This is also where
I wish to thank Gagak for his tolerance of me when we were in Mill
Hill. Coming from any other background, we would probably have killed
we are also thrust into the company of MCKK guys unwittingly. I could
only respond with a "Hmmmm….", when I was told by my wife (who was
then my girlfriend) that her brother was a budak Koleq (a prominent
one too, I soon found out). And as if my sister couldn't marry anybody
else, she had to marry one of those guys too: a "non-thoroughbred"
which is not too bad, I suppose. But surely, having an MCKK sibling
must have been awkward at times. Lul must have been annoyed by the
fact that his relatives saw his brother Kamal as the bright star of
the family having gone to a "better" school (my hypothesis only).
But in the end, STARian intellect prevailed when Lul gained admission
into Cambridge University. This would prove to geneticists that environment,
not genes maketh the man.
let's not deny that the MCOBA spirit looms larger than that of STAROBA.
It has been rumoured that some people went for a Renong scholarship
interview and were discreetly informed that "if you are not from MCKK,
you might as well go home". Can we see our old boys network bending
over backwards like that? How many times have you been to our Old
Boys Weekend? Most MCKK old boys would have no qualms about leaving
their newborn children to participate in the revelry of their Old
Boys Weekend. I personally have visited MCKK during their Old Boys
Weekend -don't ask me why- and was duly impressed with the large turnout
(I even had the occasion to have dinner in their dining hall - the
food was as lousy as ours. I was asked by one fellow how I manage
to pass off as one of them- to which I replied "I just acted like
a dickhead"). There is even a chap who is a walking encyclopedia of
MCKK facts and figures who abandoned a promising career to work full
time for the MCOBA office. This guy, upon mentioning any name under
the sun could cite how the person is connected to MCKK e.g. "he is
so and so's father who is in Form 2 in MCKK at the moment". Although
this is hilarious to me, it sadly reveals our lack of school spirit.
question is now, do you feel that it was a waste not going to MCKK?
I for one, if I have a son, would prefer him to go to STAR even if
offered MCKK. And it's not just because that would set a record of
sorts having three generations in a row attending STAR. I couldn't
really list the benefits of being a STARian but I feel that it would
be unfair to my son if I had the STAR experience and he didn't - I
think you know what I mean. At the end of the day, the benefits of
having attended MCKK boils down to two things (as perceived by most
MCKK minds): getting a TKC wife and a supportive MCOBA network. The
former I have achieved just by using my natural charms and the latter
I have access through my good friend Caine (who practices a somewhat
Freemasonic type of MCOBA networking by adorning among other things,
a watch with an MCKK crest clock face and driving a Beetle with the
number plate MC 5999).
I proposing that we end all hostilities and turn pally-wally in all
situations? If STAR rugger players start hugging MCKK players at the
end of their matches, I would personally recommend to the principal
that they be expelled! In fact, a past client of mine deprived himself
of a discount from his legal fees by wearing his beloved striped red
tie in my office. Maybe all I'm saying is that there may be a good
buddy underneath that high-hat shell. If there are any budak Koleq
reading this, I've got only one question: when Queen Elizabeth came
a-visiting did Her Majesty ever get to use the Royal RM1m toilet?