Updated
January 28, 1998. The following is based
on our experiences one night in Cancun, Mexico.
When travelling to developing countries it takes
a bit of callousness to maintain your sanity. The
poor in Mexico City, Lima, or San Paulo all look
alike. But sometimes, the callousness isnt
enough. And sometimes, the behavior of our fellow
Americans is appalling. December
30, 1997, Ciudad de Cancun, Mexico:
"Thats it young lady, youre
leaving right now. Im not kidding, get up
and get moving. Youll go to bed
hungry." Quiet suddenly came over the diners
in the small Mexican restaurant. The breeze
floating through the open patio dining area was
all that moved as the scene played.
The high school-age girl put
her walkman headphones back on and rolled her
eyes. Her friend, dressed in a Michigan
sweatshirt, giggled. The others at the table
inspected their tableware.
Several
blocks away near the Plaza de la Revolucion
(every Latin American city has one) a boy of 12
or 13 made his way among the touristas.
"Perdon, Senorita, te gusta
comprar
" He held up a small cloth
chain for the Senorita. Would she like to
purchase?
"I said get up. Lets
go. Youve had an attitude all day. Im
not paying for dinner for a little bitch."
The Maruichi band stopped playing La Bamba. The
servers huddled by the kitchen. Those waiting for
a table on the patio steps moved away or began to
intently read the menu. The others at the table
counted the red and white checks on the
tablecloth. Its true, they determined,
there are as many red checks as there are white
checks.
The high school girls looked
haughty, their eyes conducting rolling exercises.
Their lips pouted. They turned up the music on
their walkmans. How could she embarrass them like
this?
"No,
gracias," replied the American tourist
mechanically. "No gracias." As the boy
turned away, she noticed his face. One side had
been turned away from her during the exchange,
but now the sight of it stopped her momentarily,
like an electric shock, or the stunned feeling
you get when you bump your head. Her eyes fixed
on him, tried to look away quickly so as not to
stare, but could not. The boy looked back with a
mixture of sadness and despair. He was not
surprised she had said no, nor was he surprised
she was staring.
The woman moved around the
table and pulled one of the girls up by her DKNY
embossed shirt. "Lets go right
now."
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"Why did we even have to
come here?" The girl was thinking.
"Im so embarrassed to be with these
people they made me come down to Cancun
for Christmas. Why cant they just leave me
alone? This sucks!"
The
boys face was horribly disfigured;
grotesquely swollen and contorted on one side,
perfectly normal on the other. He went and sat on
the stairs of a church, his hand covering the
side of his face.
The
woman was alone with her thoughts. She waited
several feet away for the bus to take her back to
the $250 per night private resort where workers
earning the minimum wage of three pesos per day
(40 cents) were raking the beach. What could she
do for this boy? Was he hungry? Would money help?
She
knew the rules: Never give money to beggar
children, its all part of a racket. Could
it be true? Was he a Mexican Oliver Twist, taking
his earnings back to Fagan? Or was he a
scoundrel, like Kiplings Kim, living well
on the street, begging his way to a lucrative
existence. Or, was he simply a boy, shunned
because of his disfigurement, living in poverty
in a poverty-struck world? If she bought him an
ice-cream, would it be an unbelievable treat?
What could she do? Indecision overcame her.
"Im sorry," the
woman said to the remaining party at her table
and unintentionally to the rest of the
restaurant. "Shes been on the rag all
day." A lack of appetite swept the
restaurant. The two girls giggled out on the
street. The woman left to shepherd the girls back
to their resort.
Conversations started again at
the tables on the small patio. The band started
another rendition of La Bamba for another
American tourista. The waiters swooped back into
the dining area. The world moved on.
The
indecision is still with the woman. Could she
have done something for the boy? The bus came too
soon and then she was off to the hotel.
Soon
after the woman left on the bus, another woman
and two girls walked by. The boy knew not to
approach them; the girls had seen him, whispered
something to each other, and started to giggle.
He looked down.
On the way to their resort, the
girls stopped at the Haagen Daz shop.
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