What is Buddhism ... to me?

By Mei Khing Ong.

Buddhism to me is more than just a religion. It is a way of life, the very nature of our existence and everything that is all around us. For me, Buddhism is far from a doctrine. Rather, it is truly relevant in my daily life, as well as others.

For me, getting used to the idea of Buddhism was not too difficult. I was born into a Buddhist family. However, as most people my age may tell you, when we were young, we did what we were told and did not question much. Going to temples was a norm, even though at that time I did not understand the meaning of offerings, joysticks burning and such. But, while I was at university, I had the opportunity to explore what Buddhism truly is. Not just the rituals, not just the praying, but far more than that. For me, it is beyond words.

As far as I can remember, Buddhism is the one thing that has sustained my interest far longer than anything else. We all go through stages of liking something or someone, but after a while, those desires and infatuations end. However, with Buddhism, although I went through periods where my faith may have been a little dented, but I always came back to it, partly because a lot of the teachings have helped me to understand life better. By contemplating and practising on the teachings, I was able to cope with difficulties and stress. As an engineering student, I quite often found the study materials not a breeze. Being a student nowadays requires a lot of patience, determination and hard work. It was through Buddhism that I learnt how to handle stress, and that helped in my studies, as well as in my relationship with others.

For as long as I can remember, there have always been a lot of misconceptions about Buddhism. This is of course, due to a lack of understanding and ignorance. However, I wish to urge everyone not to be distracted by the many different sources that may claim to be truly Buddhism. Learning, cultivating and practising, as how the Lord Buddha taught us, are very difficult, but extremely rewarding. We may find ourselves stumbling, and not being able to develop as how we may have hoped. But I hope that all of us won't give up, and continue to practise the Buddhist teachings, by incorporating them into our daily lives. Therefore, I urge all, not to give up! For what lies ahead of us, is far more beautiful than words could ever describe.

May all beings be well and happy! Sadhu!