Possessive and controlling behavior.....that's NOT love.
Isolation and name calling ...... that's NOT love
Blaming you for everything they are unhappy or insecure about is NOT love.
Expecting you to rely ONLY on them for your emotional needs ....is NOT love. That is just another attempt to isolate you from everyone around you.
Verbal abuse is NOT love
Name calling is NOT love
Interrogation...is NOT love
Sleep deprivation....is NOT love. Sometimes an abuser will deprive you of sleep..just so you are not quick on your feet. It makes it much easier for them to control you.
Threats of bodily harm.....is NOT love
Breaking things.....and throwing fits of anger...is NOT love
To be phycially restrained while having differences of opinion...is NOT love.
Being belittled.....is NOT love
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