How does one deal with the loss of someone they love? I know that I will grieve the loss of Raymond forever. However, as time has passed, I have somehow found a way to live with the loss. Time has created a scab over a once open wound.

If you or someone you care about is grieving, the most important thing to know is that there is no handbook for this. There is no right way to grieve. Everyone must do their own grief work, and travel their own grief journey.

The links below contain information about my own grief journey. You will no doubt find that a lot of things that I write seem to contradict each other. That's the way it is for me. On any given day, I may have completely different outlook on things. It is my hope that I will eventually come to my own understanding about the way things are, and find some peace with that. Until then, I continue to stuggle and find my own way through this.