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Welcome to Virdigo. My goal here is to tell you how guys work, so that you girls will know how to attract us. Just a little warning: this is the cold, hard truth - not fun and refreshing. In fact, you are probably going to want to kill the browser and shout, "Guys suck!" at some point in reading this web page. Hang in there.
Guys have a one-track mind. This makes us bad at multitasking, but good at getting things accomplished. We cannot be emotional and productive at the same time. So basically, we are nothing like the emotionally intertwined females. The emotions that fuel you girls, get in our way. We can do pretty much anything without emotion - even expressing emotion. No joke. I am talking about one of the most emotional experiences you girls can have - making love.
Yeah. That's right. We are machines made to make you a happier person. I'm not saying that we are not emotional; we have our moments. Emotions tend to be all or nothing for us. We can't be emotional at the same time because of our one-track mind.
So how does this help you? You know that, to guys, sex does not equal emotions. We think on two different levels. We have the logical side, and the emotional side. Attract us accordingly. Emotional attraction is when we link you to the things we enjoy, and eventually you become what we enjoy. Logical attraction may be a whole new world for you girls...
We are logically attracted by sight. Ever wonder why guys like boobs so much? Because we can see your femininity written all over your chest. We want a girl to be a girl. And when we see it, we believe it. So, ladies, we think it is cute when you talk about girl stuff. Sometimes we don't want to hear it, but as long as we know you are talking about it, we are cool with that. Visually, you should look like a woman. Accent your beautiful features, and hide, lessen, or get rid of the not-so-beautiful ones.
Why do I call it logical attraction? The male is a machine designed to reproduce in the most fitting gene pool. We are instinctively attracted to health, fitness, and beauty. We want our offspring to be healthy, fit, and beautiful. We know that these things will make you a better lover and a better mother. That is what we instinctively look for - wife material. Makes sense, right?
Let's get back to emotional attraction. Guys live for two feelings: "the rush" and "the relief". If you can control these two feelings in your man, you can have him. Ask and encourage. Ask him to do something he loves doing, and be there with him as he does it - even get involved. Ask him what his hobbies are, and then ask him to participate. If he dances, ask him to teach you or dance with you. If he is musical, ask him to play a song for you. If he is into sports, ask him to play a little one on one. If he likes hardcore, ask him to teach you how to mosh. Always encourage him. Do this by being extra flirty when he plays hard, plays a song, dances, moshes, etc. Learn his hobbies, and then become his hobby.
Most guys will tell you that if you want a guy you should flirt and dress in tight clothes. Automatically, your defenses go up. I'm not a slut! Being attractive is more than being a slut. You need to connect with us at an emotional level and a physical level. Sluts don't have boyfriends because they can't connect at the emotional level to keep the guys they want.
Script your battle plan, and come and get us!
And if you want my opinion on a guy before you go for him, use the checklist.