"I'd like to share with you some flirting techniques. 
As you probably know already, flirting is the ultimate KEY to
building up sexual chemistry with women. As I tell my readers
all the time, you should always try to "flirt for skirt!"

	Here are some flirting moves I would like you to try 
this weekend...

Flirting Technique: Eye-Contact

	Most of flirting is done with your eyes. Keep good 
	eye-contact on a woman when you talk to her. Just keep 
	your eyes focused on her a bit "too long."

	"Next time you're with a girl, increase your eye contact 
with her to about eighty percent of the time when you talk to her. 
Try to look DEEPLY into her eyes and even through it. Of course, 
you don't have to count how many seconds you have to look at her. 
Simply let your eyes be glued to hers a little longer, even 
during the silences; and when you finally must look away, drag 
your eyes away slowly as if you're feeling quite reluctantly, and 
look back at her again as soon as you can."


Flirting Technique: Say "Hello" With Energy

	When you approach a woman, say "Hello" in a flirty way. 
	It will make her think you e sexier than the average 
	geek who walks up to her and gives her a shy "Hi". 

Flirting Technique: Shake Her Hand A Bit Too Long

	When you shake her hand, let your hand stay on hers 
	for a bit too long and then brush against her hand as 
	you pull back. Do this while smiling and looking into 
	her eyes sincerely. You don want to come off as a 
	pervert. 

Flirting Technique: Repeat The Woman's Name

	As you talk to her, repeat her name as much as you can. 
	Say her name slow, softly and sensually each time you 
	say it.

	Example: "Hello, De-bbie, I am very glad you came 
		  here..."

Flirting Technique: Stir Your Drink

	Stir your drink with a rhythm as you talk to her. 
	The effect can be "hypnotizing" under the right 
	atmosphere. 

Flirting Technique: Lower Your Volume

	Lower and lower your volume so she has to lean towards 
	you to listen.

Flirting Technique: Whisper

	When she gets close enough, whisper to her. This works 
	well in a bar, when the music is so loud you have to 
	talk in each other ears.

Flirting Technique: Be Playful

	Ask yourself the following questions:
		1)    How much fun can I have tonight?
		2)    What sorts of interesting things can I 
		      find out about this girl?

Flirting Technique: Use Nicknames

	When you get closer to a woman, make up a cute nickname 
	for her.

Flirting Technique: Touch Her Back

	If she starts touching you, then touch her on the 
	shoulder or arm when you laugh. Increase the frequency of 
	touching as the night goes on.

Flirting Technique: Leave Her Wanting More

	Do what strippers do the guys. Get a girl all hot and 
	then leave her wanting more!

Flirting Technique: Laugh At Her Jokes
	
	Laugh at her jokes whenever she makes one. Touch her on 
	the arm lightly when you laugh if she's already touching you.

Flirting Technique: Listen To Her Stories

	Pay attention to what she says. Be focused on her, not 
	on the hot waitress. 

Flirting Technique: Drop A Compliment

	Drop her a compliment every once in awhile. Not too often 
	though!

Flirting Technique: Tease Her

	Incorporate teasing into your flirting. Tease her till 
	she's wet!

Flirting Technique: Get More Personal

	Ask her more and more personal questions as the evening 
	progresses. Things about her childhood, etc!"

"Flirting is almost an art form. It takes much practice to execute the 
subtle signals of interest with perfect timing. Thankfully, there is no 
shortage of flirting tips for men out there. However, flirting is only half the 
battle. To truly make your rapport with a woman successful, you need to 
recognize when she's flirting with you. 


Women are masters of subtlety, so it's your job to remain especially aware of 
every gesture, every word, and every move she throws your way. Always remember 
that attentiveness is key. 



*A WORD TO THE WISE* 

Although the signs that a woman is interested in you can boil down to these 10 
points, you need to know that any single point can be deceptive. The lady 
you're chatting up may be an attention-seeking serial flirter with no 
intentions of ever going on a date with you. 

Or she might simply be very nice and friendly with everyone, not just you. If 
you see her often (at work, for example), a good way to tell is by paying 
attention to how she reacts to others. If it's the same way she behaves with 
you, then don't get your hopes up. 

The following flirting signs are good for all settings, whether in a coffee 
shop, restaurant, nightclub, or at work. So sharpen your senses and read on. 



Number 10 



She keeps glancing over 
Are her eyes aimed at you every time you look her way? And does she avert her 
gaze whenever you catch her staring? Then you might have a live here. If she 
doesn't prolong the eye contact, then she's probably shy and needs a little 
coaxing from you. Go up to her, introduce yourself, and get her talking. You 
know you're doing well when... 


Number 9 



She smiles at you 
The smile is the ultimate sign of openness and friendliness, provided it is 
genuine. Many people force a smile when trying to be polite, but they tend to 
be fairly obvious about it. If she shows her teeth and has that sparkle in her 
eye, then you can deduce that she's enjoying your company. Your only job is to 
keep her smiling by smiling back. 


Number 8 



She goes out of her way to get you to notice her 
If, on her way from point A to point B, she takes an unnecessary detour through 
point C (you), she might be trying to get your attention. For instance, if she
 walks by your table "on her way" to the washroom in a coffee shop, but your 
table is located at the opposite end of the restrooms, she is probably 
interested. Why else would she be taking the long way? If she smiles at you on 
her way, consider your job half done. 


Number 7 



She plays with her hair 
Women's hair is a source of power and confidence to them -- why else would they 
get so devastated after a bad haircut? They tap into its power at key moments, 
subconsciously unleashing its seductive potential. If you see her twirling her 
finger through it or throwing it around, like in a shampoo commercial, then you 
have a potential flirt in your midst. 

This goes for body language in general. Some women like exposing their necks, 
prepping their clothes, or placing their arms in front of them in a way that 
their biceps push their breasts together, augmenting their cleavage. Some 
magazines tell women to let their shoes dangle at their toes, displaying the 
curvature of their feet, which men, apparently, associate with their other 
curves. However, if she's crossing her arms, it means she's distancing herself.
 Be alert. 


Number 6 



She initiates the conversation 
Taking the first step to initiate a connection with you is a huge sign that 
she's interested. If she tells you something like "You remind me of someone I 
know," which begs a response and subsequent conversation, that's a concrete 
sign. 

During the conversation, she may further convey her interest by asking you open-
ended questions -- watch out fellas, they're starting to use our own weapons 
against us! She might also whisper "secrets" to you, bringing your faces close 
together, perhaps letting you get a good whiff of her perfume. 


Number 5 



She laughs at your jokes 
When you relate a funny story, does she throw her head back in riotous laughter 
or does she just look at you and say, "Is that supposed to be funny?" A big 
part of flirting involves reactions to the partner, so if she acts captivated 
by your words, you're in the green. Other reactions that convey approval 
include asking "really?", "wow" and opening her mouth in amused disbelief. 


Number 4 



She asks if you like certain activities 
Does she ask you about your hobbies? Is she being more specific, and asking you 
if you like a particular pastime? Although she is not actually asking you for a 
date, it's an implied way of doing it. She could be leading up to asking you 
out or paving the ground for you to pop the question instead. If the activity 
in question is dancing, movies or dinner, then it is almost certain. 


Number 3 



She pays you a compliment 
Women are sparse with compliments, so if she throws one your way, you can pat 
yourself on the back. This is especially good if it has to do with your 
physique, as this implies that she is attracted to you. Another way she may 
demonstrate her interest is by repeating your name, letting you know that you 
are memorable and establishing a closer, more intimate connection with her. 


Number 2 



She makes sexual comments 
Some women like to put themselves in the mood by talking about things that turn
 them on. It brings out their frisky side. So if she steers the conversation to 
sexy topics, she could be trying to pull you into a flirting crescendo that 
might lead to a veritable verbal foreplay. Most times they will keep it 
understated and tasteful, so you should do the same. A crass slip-up is a sure-
fire way to ruin the rapport. 


Number 1 



She touches you 
When a woman breaks the contact barrier during a conversation, it is almost a 
sure sign that she's interested. It can be as obvious as touching your arm or 
knee while making a point, or as faint as having her knees come into contact 
with yours under the table. But you must make sure that she makes the first 
skin convergence. 

A less direct way is if she mirrors your body language, which is something 
women do subconsciously. When you lean in, she leans in. When you rest your 
elbows on the table, she does the same. Duplicating your actions is her way of 
showing you that she's "in-synch" with you. 


*FLIRT FREELY* 



Since some of the above signals could just be gestures of friendliness on a 
woman's part, you should count a minimum of four before you conclude that she 
is, indeed, flirting with you. If she commits five or more, your evening is 
set. 

So now you know the theory, but recognizing her signals on the spot takes time, 
especially when they're too subtle to be detected by the untrained eye. And 
though you should constantly be alert, don't get yourself into a state of tense 
vigilance, where you're looking for nothing else but the aforementioned signs.
 Keep cool, relax and enjoy yourself. In time, women's flirtation techniques 
will become as clear as traffic signals."

"INTENSE GAZE
When conversing with your Quarry, exaggerate your eye
contact. Search for his or her optic nerve. Lock eyes
with your Quarry to give the aura of already being in
love."

"BEDROOM EYES
While chatting with your Quarry, gaze at the most
attractive part of his or her face. Your pupils will
automatically expand, giving you those bedroom eyes.
Also, think loving thoughts. Concentrate on how beautiful
your Quarry is, how comfortable you feel with her, how
much fun it would be to take a shower with him."

"A VISUAL VOYAGE
As you and your Quarry are chatting, let your eyes do
some traveling—but only on safe territory at first. Take a
visual voyage all over his or her face, concentrating
mostly on the eyes. If he or she seems to be enjoying
your expedition, take small side trips to the neck,
shoulders, and torso.
Women, you have a more liberal passport to travel in this
territory. Men, be more wary. You're cruising into
dangerous seas and can sink the ship if your eyes travel
too far south and vacation there too long."

"STICKY EYES
Whenever you are talking with your Quarry, let your
eyes stay glued to his or hers a little longer—even during
the silences.
A gaze that stays overtime awakens primal, slightly
disturbing feelings. It induces the same "fight or flight"
chemicals that race through our veins when we feel
infatuation.
When you must look away, do so reluctantly. Drag your
eyes away slowly, as though they had been stuck with
warm taffy."