Understanding
Your Legal Rights as a
Battered Woman
You are
entitled to be safe and there are state and public agencies,
courts, and shelters that are ready to assist you in your
pursuit of safety.
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Steps:
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Know that no one has the right to abuse you, physically or emotionally.
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Believe that you are not responsible for the abuse and that you can find a way out.
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Find out where the closest domestic violence shelter is and get yourself there. Call 911 if you are in immediate danger. In recent years, police have become more aware of domestic violence and will not take your concerns lightly.
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Tell the police you want the perpetrator arrested. Press charges. Remember that it will be the town or district attorney who proves the case against him, not you.
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Ask for a restraining order in criminal court. A court can issue an immediate restraining order to protect you, even before the case is tried. Or, go to family court and file a petition there for a restraining order based on the abuse.
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Understand that even if you leave your home and your belongings, you have not given them up. You are entitled to a division of property if you are married. If you are not married, what's yours is yours and you can file a case in small claims court to get your things back if necessary.
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Evict the perpetrator if you are living together in your own home. Even if you are renting the property, if you were the original tenant you can have him evicted. Check with your local town or landlord/tenant court to get information about procedures for eviction. If you are married, you will need to begin a divorce proceeding and have the court decide who will occupy the residence.
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Do not give up your children. Even if you are the only one who is physically harmed, your children suffer emotional abuse from witnessing or being near abuse. Take them with you if you leave and file a petition for custody in family court. If you have left without your children in the course of a violent situation, pick them up from school or have a relative go to the house and get them to safety. If you are unable to do this, file a petition in family court asking for their immediate return to you. At the very least, the court will ensure that you see them regularly while the case is proceeding.
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Contact your local child protection agency if your children are still with the perpetrator and are in danger.
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Apply for emergency aid with your social services department. The personnel at the shelter will be able to help you with this. You can also call the department yourself and ask what help they can provide.
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Tips:
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If possible, try to have a plan before leaving. Know where you are going, when is the best time to go, what you will be taking and what your backup plan is.
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The issue of domestic violence is more public than it used to be. Do not be ashamed or afraid to seek help. Police are trained to be sensitive to this issue and will believe you.
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Remember that in our legal system, your rights are more
important and more protected than the perpetrator's rights.
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Warnings:
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Your
safety and the safety of your children should be your primary
concern.
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