How to
Identify a Victim of Child Abuse
Child abuse can come in four different forms:
physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse or
neglect. Look for common signs that abuse may be a
part of a child's life.
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Steps:
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Look for physical signs of abuse: bruises, cuts, burns (perhaps
from cigarettes) or broken bones. |
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Consider the possibility of abuse if the child has difficulty
walking, sitting or performing other daily tasks due to soreness.
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Note the child's weight. Weight loss may result if the child
isn't getting enough food. An overweight child might be overeating
because of feelings of worthlessness.
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Look for developmental stalls, especially in infants, such as
not having age-appropriate language or social skills.
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Consider personality: Distrust, excessive efforts to please,
shyness or introversion (playing alone), fighting (a call for
attention) or not getting along with others could all be signs
of abuse. |
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Watch sleeping habits: A child who's often tired (due to lack of
sleep) or who frequently has nightmares may be a victim.
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Look for signs of drug or alcohol abuse in the child and his or
her parents.
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Monitor the child's performance at school. Falling grades or
underachievement could indicate abuse.
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Consider any self-destructive behavior, such as suicide attempts
or self-mutilation, as an indicator that the child may be a victim
of abuse. |
Tips:
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If you suspect abuse, ask questions that encourage the child
to share information about home life or possible abuse. Ask in a
non-threatening manner, in a setting where the child feels safe
(away from the abuser).
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For help, guidance or more information about child abuse, call the Childhelp
USA Hotline, 1-800-4-A-CHILD.
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Warnings:
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Think before you act!
When you suspect child abuse to a child or adolescent, don't immediately start calling the authorities (unless, of course, it's a dire emergency). First listen to the child (often just telling helps a lot). Let the child know that you are willing to help her
or him and how you can do that. Even if they are reluctant for you to do anything at first, it can sometimes be very empowering for the young person to make the decision to act - or not. Bear in mind, however, that the child may be either too young, or too terrified of the consequences of having confided in someone, to make any decision.
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