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So you want to be a donor: Part 2
In the vampiric world donors are a very vital apsect to there well being. In the previous article I touched on mostly what a blood donor should do and neglected to mention anything about a PSI donor. This article will fill in the missing holes.
Most of the time PSI donors are unaware that a vamp is feeding off of them. Is this stealing energy? Depends on how it's done. If they are feeding off of a large crowd putting out tons of energy I don't think it is. If they are targeting a specific person and taking there engery all the time without asking then yes that would be stealing.
What most PSI donors have to be aware of is how much energy they should let the vamp take. If you find yourself tired all the time, dizzy or lacking in energy then you are probably giving to much. This is bad for your health and as a donor your health is very important. A way to avoid losing to much energy is to learn how to shield. This will help you control how much energy a vamp can take once you master your shield as well as prevent anyone stealing your energy without knowing.
As well as blood donors, PSI donors also form a bond with their vamp. Do not get confused where your value/boundries lie though. If the vamp tells you that you need to have cyber sex or do something sexual for them to feed then they are crossing a boundry unless you have already discussed feeding like that. A vamp should be able to feed without having to do anything sexual. It may enhance the feed but is not necessary. If you are at all uncomfortable with the way they feed tell them. Again it's your energy not theirs and you do not need to give it to them. Abuse of a donor should never happen nor should it be tolerated. Donors are vamps friends, lovers, and sometimes family why would you treat someone that close to you poorly?
Finally talk is the best thing when being a donor. Make sure you lay down your boundries and values up front so when things come up they will know where you stand, or at least be forwarned. Don't let anyone talk you into anything you don't want to do. If you are uncomfortable with someone taking your energy then don't let them. Also if you are having a stressful time, or sick at all it's benefical for you to keep your energy. Make sure your vamp is always considerate when you need your own extra energy if they demand it still it's time to put up your shields and be firm. As always have fun forming new bonds and experiencin this with whatever vamp you are.
Misty 2004
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