This site is for you and about you. It does not have any information about finding someone special in your life as you have already chosen one. There are references about submission, but since I really hate titles, I have changed the names and omitted Doms/Masters. I do this as I feel that the way I live my life is rather a lifestyle, which doesn't seem to fit in any of the categories. I would rather choose to compare my life to the early 50's or even earlier rather than comparing it to BDSM.

You won't find any pictures here, or any pornography. You also won't find this to be a "pick-up" place. But if you are in a relationship similar to this one, you have come to the right place.

When I think of myself, I have yielded power to my Husband, to surrender. It is to serve, to think of my Husband's needs. However, I am not subservient. That would mean to be inferior, or to act inferior--that is not who I am. I am stronger as a result of being submissive. By serving I am more powerful. I know how to please or displease. In that respect I have the power of controlling my husband's emotions. I will be at my best when I place my body in His hands. I will grow.

It is my hope that you think about how you are serving and what more you need to be. Think about how well the training is going. Keep a journal if possible.