I guess that's my problem.....I sometimes don't think I can be sitting there either watching tv, riding in the car, taking a shower, or whatever and then I realize...how long have I been sitting here and not a thought has entered my brain, not listening to the tv, not paying attention to what's going on around me while driving (or maybe I am ...not sure), and still washing that same spot on my body......ok, that part is normal, at least for LJ. so then I start talking to myself and saying things like "Hello!!?, wake up, you are scaring me!" So I guess what I am trying to say is that Mark, you're not alone in this. I too must have been abducted by aliens?? Or maybe it is just one of those things that we can't answer. Women just believe that we (guys) can do it. Just sit and have nothing in our heads. They ask, "Hey what's on your mind?" and we can or atlest I know I can just honestly say nothing, NOT A GOD DAMN THING??? Oh well, I hope this makes you feel a little better about yourself, Mark.

Mango