How can we stop abortion? (Page 17)
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bhutabhavana New Member |
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posted 09-19-2000 01:36 AM
Please don't use this forum to spread lies and hate. Then get off the forum, you hate-filled liar. ============================================= THOUSANDS of abortions may cause pain to the unborn child, say doctors Prof Vivette Glover, of London, is calling for all terminations between 17 and Prof Glover, of Queen Charlotte's and Chelsea Hospital, who is to chair a "But between 17 and 26 it is increasingly possible that it starts to feel According to one study, aborted foetuses have been heard to cry from 21 A study by the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists said that it Dr Gillian Penney, of the Aberdeen Maternity Hospital and chairman of the Prof Peter Hepper, of the foetal behaviour research centre at Queen's The Women and Children's Welfare Fund charity says that the foetus is less
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Visant Member |
posted 09-19-2000 12:49 AM
Seeing as we're getting off the topic of abortion, which is beginning to look like an excercise in mental gymnastics (as in shouldn't we talking about alternatives rather than opinions for or against?), and into (ooh, scary) sex, I disagree that Vaishnava (hypothetically) cannot enjoy sex, that for a devotionally-minded person 'the act' is the same as animal sex. We SHOULD be much more intelligent, sensitive and caring than a hog or a dog towards our mates, wouldn't you think?
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gHari Member |
posted 09-18-2000 10:01 PM
Darwin is foolish if he thinks a vaisnava is jealous of people who are having sex. The monkey and pigeons have sex three times in the hour. Sex is a much lower taste. No vaisnava would enjoy it.
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darwin Member |
posted 09-18-2000 09:09 PM
There is a show about Eric Rudolph on court tv right now!
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darwin Member |
posted 09-18-2000 08:46 PM
darwin is sorry if his last post has upset anyone. VdK, darwin does not mean the statement as an attack on you. darwin still stands behind the statement but thinks he should not have worded it so harshly. It is no excuse for wording in such a mean way, but darwin thought the forum was very busy and he would have to word it in such a way to get attention paid to it. darwin plans to explain his position on the theory of karma, later. darwin is also sorry for snapping at mahaksadasa without first expressing his position on the issue he snapped about. [This message has been edited by darwin (edited 09-18-2000).]
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darwin Member |
posted 09-18-2000 05:43 PM
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priestess New Member |
posted 09-18-2000 05:40 PM
quote: Dear Survivor, My sister was told that, conclusively according to their tests, that her baby had just such a condition. They weren't in any doubt and tried to convince her to abort. She just could not do it. My niece is one of the cutest, smartest kids you could meet. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her. After this,I don't think there can ever be an absolute surity that the fetus is so totally damaged. Personally, I would not even consider aborting, rather I would accept the child's condition and give it the best life possible, complete with the highest level of exposure to KC possible. I would believe that for some reason this child had to be born so, and for some reason I was the mother. ihlm, lphp
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darwin Member |
posted 09-18-2000 05:25 PM
quote: Please don't use this forum to spread lies and hate.
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VdK Member |
posted 09-18-2000 05:05 PM
And what about Trinad api sunishnita (?) ? Or the humble sage sees with equal vision? there is also 'the killer of the soul, whoever he may be, goes to the darkest regions of hell. Such a birth is exactly that - so let them live, for thus carry they off their karma, whether you buy into that or not. The parents,as evident from my previous post, also realise some heavy karmic stuff and that is not to be sneezed at. Being a doctor is not an easy job, I can tell you, for I do understand you Priestess, although I do not agree. Karma is at any rate beyond our ken and nothing happens for nothing.
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VdK Member |
posted 09-18-2000 04:52 PM
Cruelty, not necessarily. From my practice ihave seen several couples with severely handicapped children, bot physicallyand mentally. Some of them have told me that they realised that they got such a child to learn the lesson of unconditional love. Others have told me that their relationship with that child was much deeper than with the other children. ONe said that the mental handicap made the relationship much deeper in feeling. Admittedly there arealso those who wallow in self-pity or pity for the child, which is the lastthing any of them needs. Compassion, yes; as that will bring out the love thatalso these souls deserve.
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mahaksadasa Member |
posted 09-18-2000 04:43 PM
Dont mean to be mean, but "making Love" must also mean practicing restraint. Do you think that Nam vets who have their packages destroyed cannot "make love". Is "making love" dependant on the sexual experiance? If one has a problem like you describe, the intelligence must be used to prevent, not the scalpel. I knew a devotee girl way back when who had seventeen abortions before she became a devotee. Her problem was that if anyone even looked at her, she became pregnant, but she learned that this was a metabolistic problem, so she could not mess around. The same goes for your scenario, you say the rubber broke, and this is the solution, but what about the next time they "make love", another abortion? when does this stop. If one has medications that have serious problems if pregnancy occurs, strict celebacy is the only answer, condoms are the most rediculous device ever invented unless they are used as water baloons. So, though I be a liberal and am not willing to go on a shooting spree against the demon doctors, I dont buy your bleeding heart plea for clemency in your presented scenario. As a chemist, I know all side effects are listed on medications, if they are ignored, nothing but horror occurs.
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survivor Member |
posted 09-18-2000 04:28 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by mahaksadasa:
THEY ARE MAKING LOVE...."IT" IS SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL There is psuedo concern about the accidental pregnancy, where is the concern that God is the one who decides where the person takes birth and what condition that life exists in, which is karmically produced. I DON'T BUY INTO THE WHOLE KARMA THING....... And who says it will be horribly disfigured? The abortionist? Thoe ob/gyn gods who cannot even give natural birth without grabbing forceps, inducing labor, spinal taps and unnecessary c-sections?
If pregnancy takes place due to (come on, we all know why, kids), then the choice is no longer ours. Choice is something that one has for themselves, choice does not include choosing for others, this is force, coersion, tyranny. I MAKE CHOICES FOR MY KIDS EVERY DAY, AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO UNTIL THEY ARE MATURE ENOUGH TO MAKE THEIR OWN.
WOULD YOU WANT TO BE THAT CHILD, DESTINED TO LIVE A LIFE OF BEING A VEGETABLE ON MACHINES, MEDICATIONS, BRINGING SUCH LITTLE JOY TO YOURSELF OR THE REST OF THE WORLD, JUST TERRIBLE SORROW? (I'M TALKING WORST CASE SCENARIO OF HORRIBLE DISFIGURATION AND MENTAL PROBLEMS) MY POINT IS THIS.........AS A PARENT, IF FACED WITH THIS DESISION, I HONESTLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO, BUT I WOULD PROBABLY LEAN MORE TOWARDS EXTREMELY EARLY ABORTION. I WOULD MOURN THE DEATH OF MY CHILD, AND FEEL LIKE I MURDERED HIM/HER, BUT I WOULD HATE MYSELF EVEN MORE FOR BRINGING A CHILD INTO THIS WORLD KNOWING S/HE WOULD HAVE SEVERE PROBLEMS. I AM IN PAIN WHEN MY SON IS MADE FUN OF BECAUSE HIS EARS ARE LARGE....I COULD NOT IMAGINE KNOWINGLY ALLOWING A CHILD OF MINE TO SUFFER A LIFETIME. THAT WOULD BE CRUELTY IN MY OPINION.
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mahaksadasa Member |
posted 09-18-2000 02:53 PM
Jagat, you are right about these conversations always twisting hither and hither. And whoever places the women as the key antagonist in the abortion issue is dead wrong. Thw women are the victims of male dominated society that refuses to take responsibility. Take this question as an example: >Situation: OK, hubby and wife are using condoms,one day....the condom breaks. She is pregnant. There is no way in the world thsi baby will be "normal" in any way. What is the right thing to do in this case? Okay, wife is having major problems with her body, then why is the man demanding to make sure he gets his thrill from it? IT, IT, IT, this is the problem, we cannot see spirit, all we see is its. There is psuedo concern about the accidental pregnancy, where is the concern that God is the one who decides where the person takes birth and what condition that life exists in, which is karmically produced. And who says it will be horribly disfigured? The abortionist? Thoe ob/gyn gods who cannot even give natural birth without grabbing forceps, inducing labor, spinal taps and unnecessary c-sections? If pregnancy takes place due to (come on, we all know why, kids), then the choice is no longer ours. Choice is something that one has for themselves, choice does not include choosing for others, this is force, coersion, tyranny. Uttara's womb was destroyed, yet Pariksit was born okay. In my own case, we are old and the child should not have been okay, but it was and is. Yeah, her parents probably will die while she is still young, but so what? Someone else cares for her, not the parent, who provides biological passage and a little food and shelter, and this care sees her through, as He (Paramatma) has for thousands of births prior and future. So, the question is rather ignorant, and suggests that sense control and ways of relationg to humanity are all out of whack. If a husband can only relate to the wife by plowing the physical fields (and vice versa, ladies), then there is no relationship and I do not feel sorry for their plight, and if they abort their child, may they have no mercy. I am pro choice, which means that margaret sangers planned parenthood should be banned from all educational systems, for they deny choice in favor of abortion. They refuse to teach fetology in schools, actually labelling it pornography, they encourage children to submit to medical procedures without consulting parents while laws exist that forbid school nurses from giving an aspirin to a child with a headache. Anyone who says that the pro-abortionist is pro-choice is a fool in my opinion. Pro choice means education freely given about the beautiful wonder and stern responsibility connected with utilization of the reproductive organs. Laying waste to the biological process is demoniac, and not a choice at all. Later, for now, thanks for your kind remark, JRdd, that was my real point about this issue. Haribol, ys, mahaksadasa
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VdK Member |
posted 09-18-2000 02:24 PM
As a doctor, you areputting me in difficulty, since I would still prefer a disfugured child than a dead one. Remember, the Hippocratic Oath demands to 'firstdo no harm.' The parents may wish different. But I would refuse to help in abortion. Asa devotee, I do not hesitate, since I would recommend krsna conscious life and we arenot the body, so this consciousness can also be imparted to the child, if the disfigurement is not mental. Even in thatcase, I consider that I havno right to intefere with the karma of thatsoul. If you areto havesuch a body, you cannot escape it, even if the parents abort it. So also in thatcase I will refuse to assist in murder.
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survivor Member |
posted 09-18-2000 01:59 PM
I have a hypothetical question for everyone. I don't myself know how to answer it, but pondered it for quite some time. It would truly be a terribly painful situation to have to be in..... Situation: OK, hubby and wife are using condoms,one day....the condom breaks. She is pregnant. There is no way in the world thsi baby will be "normal" in any way. What is the right thing to do in this case? Please give reasoning behind answer....
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