by
Steve Maxon
Before
we start, I just have to say, "Go Indians!" You know
they'll always be the Indians to me . . .
I've heard it said . . . that if you're giving a speech, and you feel
nervous, you should imagine the audience in their underwear.
Have you heard that trick? Well,
unfortunately, with your president, my brother, I don't have to imagine. I'm
all too familiar with that sight. And believe me. It doesn't help. *shudder*
As
Tom said, I’m Steve Maxon. Most
of you already know me; I know I remember many of you who are students. I started school here at Sackets in 1985, when I was four
years old. Not a whole lot
has changed for me since then; I was much shorter in 1985, I couldn’t
drive, and I took fewer naps; enjoyed them less.
I made it through elementary school here, and then junior high, and
high school, until I finally graduated in 1997.
Some of you seniors - although I hear that most of the seniors who
aren't up here on stage have already left, but maybe you guys might
understand this – I believed for years and years that I just hated going
to school, and I absolutely couldn’t wait to graduate. . . but then it
got to February senior year, and all of a sudden things sunk in, and I
wasn’t so enthusiastic to leave after all.
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"Then I got distracted, and I relaxed a bit, and the next thing
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So
it's kind of nice to be back here again.
It wasn't too long ago – this is kind of embarrassing to talk
about – that, well... I was sitting in a class here at Sackets, and I
was pretty intimidated by one of my teachers.
In fact, I was so afraid of this teacher that I didn’t dare to
raise my hand and ask to use the bathroom.
But I really needed to go! So
I tried to hold it in, I really did.
I was trying my best. I
was thinking I could wait until class ended, but it was really getting
harder and harder, and then I got distracted, and I relaxed a bit, and the
next thing I knew – BAM – I’d wet my pants.
Absolutely soaked. Ruined the chair. And
then of course I had to walk out of class with everyone staring at me, and
I had to waddle down to the nurse's office, past classes going to lunch,
and get a new pair of pants, all alone.
But
now I’ve graduated, and things are a little different, so I want you to
know this. I'M NOT AFRAID OF
MS. THORNBER ANYMORE!
No.
. . I'm just kidding. . .
The truth is, I actually am still afraid of Ms. Thornber.
Okay,
really. . . that story is true, but I was only five years old at the time.
And I’ve decided I’m not going to tell you who the teacher was,
because she suffered enough that day.
Anyway!
After I left Sackets five years ago, I went to Houghton College.
Houghton’s a small Christian liberal-arts school in western New
York, where I majored in political science, minored in professional
writing and Bible, and had a whole lot of fun.
I don’t have time to tell you about all of it now, but I will say
that in my time there, I found very few things that couldn’t be improved
by wearing a kilt. Right now, I’m taking a year off, before I attend law
school this September, at either Harvard, Cornell, or Syracuse. I’m not working, but I play music at coffeehouses
occasionally, and I spend a lot of time driving Tom and Rose around –
and if you know anything about how Tom drives right now, I'm doing that
for your sake.
But
that’s more than enough about me. The
reason we are here today is to celebrate and recognize the achievements of
your classmates, students, children, and friends.
To be inducted into the National Honor Society, a student must
excel in five vital areas – scholarship, leadership, character, service,
and potential. Of these five,
I want to talk to you mostly about the last three.
Why do I want to stress character, service, and potential?
Well, it’s easy for me to remember what it was like to sit out
there as a student. And I
know that some of you might see this assembly as just the last obstacle
between you and a week’s vacation, something to sit through, with little
relevance to your life. You
might struggle with your grades, and think that the value of scholarship
is for the so-called smart kids. Or
maybe you may not feel comfortable as a leader, for one reason or another.
Well, scholarship and leadership are very valuable, and I think
everyone should strive to improve in these areas.
But not everyone can graduate with a great average, no matter how
hard they try. And if we all
led, no one would ever get anywhere.
Different people have different strengths in different areas.
And that’s the beauty of character, service, and potential.
No matter who you are or what your strengths may be, those three
principles remain the same. They apply to everyone, and everyone should hear about them.
CHARACTER
So
the first principle I want to address is character. It is not really the responsibility of a school to teach
character to its students – that’s a job for their parents – but it
is essential that this be a place where the formation of integrity is
promoted, not attacked. Public
schools are the way that we, as a people, provide our children with the
basic knowledge they need to keep civilization going.
If we ignore the role character plays, our country will suffer.
So
what does it mean to encourage character?
It means we cannot teach students it’s okay to cheat on their
taxes, with the weak explanation that “everyone does it.”
We must tell the truth – when we cheat the government, we only
rob ourselves; we are really auctioning off our honor for a few lousy
dollars.
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What
does it mean to encourage character?
It means we cannot look at sports as an end in themselves, but we
absolutely have to put them in their proper context.
Far more valuable than the banners that hang in our gym are the
lessons our student-athletes learn on the court and the field – how to
work together as a team, how to devote themselves to a greater goal, and
most importantly, how to deal with life’s disappointments.
What
does it mean to encourage character?
It means that we set up rules to govern conduct, and if they are
broken, we follow through with the appropriate punishment.
Some of the most important lessons of integrity come when we fail.
Allowing students to avoid the consequences of their actions never
helps them grow; it only HURTS THEM, and holds them back.
It’s
not always easy or comfortable to create an environment that respects and
encourages character. But in
the long run, it’s what we need to do.
We must hold ourselves to a high standard, and learn from our
mistakes. From those to whom
much has been given, much will be required.
SERVICE
Service. After all
that’s happened in America this past year, one of the things I can be
proudest of is the vote I cast for George W. Bush in the 2000 Presidential
election. I’m sure that
many of you watched his last State of the Union address, where the
President asked each and every American to commit to the equivalent of two
years of service to our country, announced the expansion of AmeriCorps and
Senior Corps, and proposed a new program – the USA Freedom Corps – to
engage more citizens in service.
This seemed to come as a surprise to a lot of people, even some
within Bush’s own party, who seem to see government-encouraged service
as somehow insincere. But it
fits exactly what I expected from George W. Bush, because of an answer he
gave at a primary debate in December 1999.
Now, at the time, I wasn’t even a Bush supporter – I was
rooting for Alan Keyes – and actually, if you voted in the 2000 New York
State Republican primary, like I'm sure maybe five of you did, you may
have seen me there on the ballot as a delegate for Mr. Keyes.
For my trouble, I picked up a whopping 163 votes from our county,
and just over one thousand in our whole district – which works out to a
little bit under 1%. Just
missed it!
But as you might remember, at this debate in Iowa, all the
Republican candidates were asked who they felt was the most influential
political philosopher in their life.
And George W. Bush answered, “Jesus Christ.”
So if Jesus Christ is influencing Bush’s political positions,
what did He say about service? Well,
in Matthew 20, He said this: "You
know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and those who are
great exercise authority over them. Yet
it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great
among you, LET HIM BE YOUR SERVANT. And
whoever desires to be first among you, let him be your slave – just as
the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His
life a ransom for many."
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Bush
understands Christ’s words. The
measure of greatness is not scholarship; how intelligent you are, and how
many facts you can stuff into your head.
The measure of greatness is not leadership; what you can achieve,
or the orders you can give. The
measure of greatness is not position; what people think of you, your
status level when compared to others.
The measure of greatness is not power or prestige, accomplishments
or ability – the true measure of greatness is SERVICE.
When we can recognize the tremendous wealth of blessings we’ve
been given, and then further realize our obligation to help those who are
less fortunate, we will soon find that as we give of ourselves, we will
receive a higher reward than we could ever dream.
I
recently had the privilege to take a mission trip to New York City, where
this principle was put into practice.
This trip was actually led by a Sackets student; a friend of mine
– she’s here right now – Rachael Hogancamp.
And on this trip, we had the chance to help the homeless on the
streets and in the parks of Manhattan and Brooklyn – feeding poor
families on Thanksgiving, and handing out warm clothes, baked goods, and
toiletries to men who had nothing to their name.
The gratitude we received in return brought us all to tears.
It was very real, and very moving.
I
strongly encourage you to become involved in service to others.
It’s one of the most worthwhile things you could ever do.
POTENTIAL
I feel very strongly about this last point – potential –
because I’ve talked to a lot of people in high school who have a
fundamentally wrong opinion of themselves and their potential.
Listen carefully, because this is very important.
Every single one of you is capable of doing something great.
If you don’t think that applies to you, you’re wrong.
And if someone else has made you feel like that doesn’t apply to
you, they’re wrong. Why do
I say this?
Our worth as people – our potential – does not depend on what
others think of us. Today,
whether you are well-liked or you feel left out, don’t let it affect
what you believe about yourself. The
praise of man is fleeting. It
will pass away! And honestly – I know this is true – not too long after
you leave this high school, all the things that seemed so important this
past week, and this past year, will just disappear.
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When my sister Rose (the fourth-leading scorer in the Frontier
League ‘B’ Division, by the way) wasn’t selected as a league
All-Star last week, it was disappointing.
But no matter how much it hurt, or how much she deserved the honor,
not being picked didn’t take anything away from what she achieved, or
what her team achieved. It’s
a hard lesson to learn, but it’s freeing – when you stop worrying
about what people think of you, you begin to understand that who you are,
and what you can accomplish, doesn’t have anything to do with them
anyway! Don’t let someone
else rob you of an honest understanding of your worth.
You all have great potential.
You must never forget that.
CONCLUSION
Character,
service, and potential. Soon
it will be time for us to acknowledge those among us who have excelled in
these areas – as well as in leadership and scholarship.
These students about to be inducted into the National Honor Society
model for us the excellent fruit that these virtues have produced in their
lives. I hope we can all
learn from their examples, for none of us should ever stop striving to
grow in these areas.
I
am truly honored to have been given the chance to speak to you today, and
I want to offer my most sincere congratulations to all the students who
will be recognized, to their families, and to their teachers. Thank you so much for listening, and may God bless you all.
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